I am new here.
Permission to be new at midlife.
I’m 51 and I’m new here.
I don’t mean new on Substack.
I am new at being 51.
I have never done 51 before.
I am a new mom - to adult kids.
I have never parented adult children before.
I am new at perimenopause & all the chaos it brings.
I have never been through perimenopause before.
I am new at facing hard things that aging will inevitably bring.
I have never been in this part of the aging process before.
I am surprised at how much happier I am at 51 than at 31.
I am surprised by the new lines around my mouth and the hollowing underneath my eyes
I am new at deciding what I will and won’t try in the aging process.
I don’t know yet. I am new here.
Aging brings with it many choices. I am not a victim of aging, I am blessed by it.
I get to decide with more freedom than I have ever had in my life on what I want.
I am new at having this love for myself.
I am new at not nit picking every part of my body like I did in my 30s.
I am new at having more confidence in myself than any other time in my life.
I am new at feeling more joy than I have ever felt.
Aging is a privilege that I get to be new at.
What are you new at?
#50notfinished




This really resonated with me. I love how you keep coming back to being “new” instead of acting like you’re supposed to have it all figured out by now. I’m new at giving myself more grace than I used to and not picking myself apart the way I did in my 30s. Thanks for sharing this so honestly!
Yes! Just listened to you read this is the Clients for life replay so of course I had to come and comment and say yes I love this!! 🔥