I want to talk about something really powerful — your movement, and having a consistent theme running all the way through it.
Let me use my own example. IGNITE Her®. My entire brand is two words. And it was just over six years ago that those two words came to be — without me even knowing what they would ultimately become. It’s incredible to be at this stage and look back at the journey those two words have been on.
I registered the trademark, of course. And we had to fight for this one. We’d been using IGNITE Her® — we had different things, like IGNITE Her® Society, our mobile app for clients — but right when we went to submit the two words, someone else came in and was using it. So we fought for it. We showed we’d been using it for six years, and we won it. IGNITE Her® is our brand in two words.
Steve Jobs is so famously quoted — you cannot connect the dots looking forward. You can only connect them looking backward.
You remember Connect the Dots as a kid? Dot one to dot two to dot three to dot four, and an image would begin to appear. When I look backward, I can see exactly how the dots are now connected. With each and every download, I’ve been able to move my mission forward — because I’ve stayed in tune with the present moment and actually executed on whatever was put in front of me to start.
Why we wait — and why waiting traps us
I’ve watched so many women who have legacy work inside of them wanting all the answers before they launch anything. They want to be certain it won’t fail. They want to know all the plans, how it will all play out.
And that will trap you. That will not allow you to move forward.
It’s not confidence that’s needed before you start. It’s not even clarity. It’s courage. We have to have the courage to go after the download when we get it. We get a hit, we get an idea, and we know. It’s an inner knowing. We know this is the direction we want to go in.
And then our mind gets in the way. The noisy roommate in your head takes over — it won’t work because of this, and what are people going to think if this fails? And that beautiful idea doesn’t get executed on, because you talked yourself out of it.
Go back to the Connect the Dots picture. As a kid, you could almost see what the picture was going to be, because all the numbers were already there in the shape of the drawing. But that’s not how this works. Your legacy work starts with a blank piece of paper. You’re standing at dot one, and there’s nothing else there. You get a hit for what dot two is, so dot two appears, and you’re meant to connect one to two. That’s the action. And it is only after you connect to that second dot that the third dot will appear.
People don’t like that. They want to know the whole picture, the step-by-step, the next thing and the next. And it doesn’t work like that. It cannot. Your legacy work must unfold exactly that way — the next dot, the next download, the next idea will be intuitively given to you only when you take action. It’s the series of actions that create the result.
The decision, not the desire
Let me take you back to IGNITE Her®.
I feel like I was trying to leave IBM for 20 years. The only way I actually left is because I made a decision that I was going to leave. From the moment I made that courageous decision, it took two years. But in those two years — dot one, dot two, dot three, dot four, dot five — all the dots started to appear.
What happened for the prior 20 years? Why didn’t those dots get revealed to me when I knew I wanted to leave? Because I hadn’t made a decision that I was going to.
Do you see that difference? It’s such an important distinction. The desire to want to leave IBM was not enough. It had to be a decision. Wanting and desire is not enough. You have to decide this is what you’re going after, this is what you want, and that enough is enough — you’re not taking anything less than that.
So in my own journey of growing a business and leaving IBM, I had to ignite my highest self. I had to ignite the highest frequencies of myself. I had to become who I’ve always been but had been completely blinded to — living in the paradigms and all the things.
That’s when the two words came to me. I started working with other women and realized they were all in the same place. They had a goal. They had a dream. They had a desire. But their noisy roommate kept telling them — you don’t know how, and what if you fail, and what if no one wants to buy this, and what will so-and-so think, and I’m overwhelmed, I don’t have the answers.
That whole narrative dulls the higher frequencies. You’re living in a shadow state.
How you actually manifest anything
I remember getting sucked into the whole law of attraction thing. Sit crisscross applesauce, hold your palms up to the air, and you’ll manifest anything you desire.
That’s BS, by the way. The way you manifest anything you desire is you have to ignite her. Period. Full stop. There’s no other way.
Bob Proctor said something that resonated with me so deeply. The law of attraction has been so misunderstood, he said. It’s the law of vibration — which is the same thing as frequency. So what frequency are you vibrating at? If you’re vibrating at a low frequency, I don’t care what you’re doing out of The Secret, you’re not manifesting anything. I don’t care if you’re taking a manifestation course. I don’t care if you’re writing letters to the universe and sealing them in a box.
In reality, we have to do some really hard work that no one wants to do. To manifest anything you desire, you have to ignite her. You have to ignite that highest frequency that is already inside of you. It’s not outside of you. It’s nothing to look outside of you for. It’s a battle going on within you.
That’s why I call it the inner rebellion.
We are deciding to ignite our highest self. We’re going to fight off the shadow. We’re going to fight off the paradigm. We’re going to fight off the centuries and decades of programming that has made especially women feel the way that they do. We’re going to shed that and step into that higher frequency.
It’s not easy. It doesn’t happen overnight. It happens through continuous study, courage, action, learning — and continuing that loop.
The vision I can finally see
IGNITE Her® came about before I ever took the Human Design system and redesigned it, rewrote it for women. It has been the mantra that led the business to where it is today. That was always the pathway. That was always the mission of the brand. And it’s why we trademarked it.
But the how has had to evolve over time. The how was waiting for me to evolve. And as I’ve evolved, the how — how to help other women ignite their highest self — has played out over the last six years especially.
Looking backward, I can see it all play out. And I can see at least the very next step I need to take. I have a vision that IGNITE Her® becomes a system of daily personal growth and development for women around the world, helping them go into the new era. Women certified as an IGNITE Her® guide, taking this system and helping others. The system is analog and digital. It’s physical and AI. It’s all these things in one — and I think it’s what people are craving right now.
Bob Proctor talked about studying every day. There were times he would study the same two pages of a book over and over across several days until the concepts really stuck. So — are we willing to do that? Are we willing to study our divine design? Are we willing to study the IGNITE Her® frequencies and the IGNITE Her® system so we can understand ourselves, our highest self, so we can alter the vibration of ourselves — which is the only way to have the relationships, the life, the money, the legacy work, the fulfillment, the joy?
For centuries, people have prayed outside of themselves for the answer, for the outcome, for the result. But it’s an inner journey. You actually get closer to Source, to God, to Universe — whatever you believe — when you go in. Because that exact Source created you, and that exact Source and your spirit are waiting for you to figure this out. I know mine was.
You don’t have to wait for January
The beautiful part is that I’m diving all in to bring this system forward by January — a guidebook, a journal, my Daily Frequency podcast for members, a Kardex to study, and a web-based app called Juno so you can interact with me, with your design, and study alongside me. It’s AI, it’s digital, it’s physical. It’s all the things, and it’s life-altering.
But you don’t have to wait until January. Because the Daily Frequency already exists.
It’s been around for two years. We do it in The Red Rebelle Room. You can get started today — getting your reports, starting to study your design, using our custom GPTs for now, and being one of the early adopters of this system.
Every day in our community — we have a private mobile app called IGNITE Her® Society — it blows my mind how much people are having major, major breakthroughs from simply studying their own designs, simply studying the IGNITE Her® frequencies and awakening something deep inside of them. As I was talking to you just now, I had a total download of the next step I needed to take, and it was so crystal clear I had to write it down while I was recording. Because that’s how this works.
I believe this in my core. It’s changed my marriage. It’s changed my parenting. We are financially in a totally different situation — and it’s not because I randomly had business success. It’s because I’ve had sustainable business success through the development of me. Our business cannot outperform us. Our legacy work cannot outperform how we see ourselves. We need to be able to see our divine design — to see who we truly are. And that’s what we do in the IGNITE Her® frequencies.
Come on over to The Red Rebelle Room
I want to give you those keys. Come on over to The Red Rebelle Room, and you’re going to be in awe of yourself — of who you are, of what you’re here to do. You just have to ignite her, and I want to help you find your movement.
So play with this. What are the two words of your movement? Can you synthesize and describe your movement in two words? Mine is IGNITE Her®. Noodle on it. See what comes up. Have you trademarked them? Are they the mantra of your clients and your community? Because this is where you have the opportunity to go. There is a sliver of humanity waiting for you to bring your genius even more fully out into the world — but you’ve got to know what that genius is. Studying your divine design through the IGNITE Her® frequencies is how you do that. This is how you determine your legacy work, your purpose — the most fulfilling thing you can do in your time on this planet.
We’d love to have you become a Red Rebelle so you can begin this inner rebellion and this work — because it is the pathway to anything you desire.
So go check out The Red Rebelle Room — the link is right below. And once you’re inside, make the Daily Frequency a daily habit. Try it for 30 days and see what happens.
I think you’ll be blown away. I know you will.
Alright, my beautiful friends. Have an incredible day — and I can’t wait to hear the two words that describe your mission. Hope to see you in The Red Rebelle Room.
